A lot of people are easily carried away when it comes to rubbing emotions together and dating someone. Little do so many care about the thoughtful essence and gainful reasons that go beyond dating a guy or lady. People are usually engulfed in scintillating euphoria that exudes when amorous feelings are exchanged. Young folks often find their pleasures in an adventure of romance that vanishes when the bitter truth begins to manifest. It’s always been a spree of affection that dangles in their hearts, lending no hat to verisimilitude of right purpose. They engage in a flight of fancy which may lead to a pleasant or regrettable end. Here are some of the facts you need to know about getting married.
EARLY RELATIONSHIPS DO NOT ALWAYS GUARANTEE MARRIAGE
Boys and girls in their cherubic innocence or deluded ride start what they call future-partnership hoping to end it at the altar. More often than not, it fails when life difficulties begin to manifest. A little boy or girl who can barely withstand life pressures begins to show his or her true nature when life situations turn sour. It is a good thing to hope for the future, but it is a wrong reason not to plan for it. The timeless promises and serenades end when trying times and a change of ‘levels’ start to set in. Nonetheless, some people meet their true love at a tender age and they are able to nurture the friendship to a flourishing relationship which can lead to marriage. What matters most is steadfastness and life chances depending on a couple of other factors. These may include family or parents’ stance, environment, pressure from other admirers, trend and distance.
CHARACTER, MIEN, COMPATIBILITY AND FOCUS ARE THE BEST ATTRACTIONS
Good character and mien can be the best appeal for friendships. A fantastic relationship may turn bitter if the young guy or lady grows to become a monster. Brilliant and clear minds are better than difficult people. Lifestyle is also a strong factor that gets attraction. Compatibility is important and key to a successful relationship. Flocking with the right ones is a good choice every young guy or lady should make. Besides, a focused guy or lady can be the best friend everyone should have. The future holds incredible promises to those who stay focused and forward looking than those who are driven by social fads.
WRONG RELATIONSHIPS DESTROY GOOD RELATIONSHIPS
Getting into a relationship may set a cord of influence that affects new and future relationships. A young guy who is focused and determined may get himself involved in a relationship that can damage his life chances and opportunities. The tales of heartbreaks and harrowing experiences usually linger on, even when the ‘love adventure’ has ended. The emotional bond can drive future relationships. At times, there can be counter claims and accusations which can affect the new relationship. The competitive drive between the old friends may have a huge impact on the new relationship. Old relationship can be thorn in flesh.
CULTURE AND RELIGION MATTER A LOT
Culture and religion can be essential for a relationship to work. Good understanding of individual’s religion and culture can help sustain a relationship. Friends with different culture and religion may face different challenges through religious or cultural cross. Difference in culture or religion sometimes meets stiff family resistance or parental acceptance. It takes sound commitment and mutual understanding for such relationships to thrive. There are usually mixed feelings and language barrier which can trigger lack of trust, when people from different faith and culture come together.
KNOW YOUR TEMPERAMENT
Temperament determines the pattern of our actions. Knowing your temperament can blend rough edges in a relationship. Going by Tim Lahaye’s words, “Temperament influences everything you do – from sleep habits to eating style to the way you get along with other people. Humanly speaking, there is no other influence in your life more powerful than your temperament or combination of temperaments. That is why it is so essential to know your temperament and to be able to analyse other people’s temperaments, not to condemn them, but so you can maximize your potential and enable them to maximize theirs.”
KNOW YOUR GENOTYPE
Your genetic nature or type is a crucial factor everyone needs to consider before tying the knots of a relationship. Knowing your genotype or blood group is important. It helps save lifetime challenges and makes love life seamless. Having faith in God is non-negotiable; but you can avoid lifetime mistakes by taking right decisions.
PERFECT RELATIONSHIP IS A WILL-O’-THE-WISP
Perfection is a benchmark everyone should set; but it can delay life opportunities. A perfect relationship is rare and rather inaccessible. There is no perfect guy or lady who can stand as the tall, dark and handsome that is etched on the plate of your mind. Everyone should set standards, but these should not be exaggerated. Perfection can only be found in God. Good relationship that is built on trust, right attitude, mutual respect, understanding and tolerance can go a long way in realizing the true meaning of love.